This ? is For Woman 20 to 29?

ok ladie, i'm 20 year old right now and my question to you is does a man with a kid and single less attractive than one with no kids, not just looks but does the guy having the kid make you not want to date him, Why or why not. i'm having troubls getting a new girl friend bec i'm a single dad now mom has baby i give her money i'm a good person we broke up for family issues we did not even cheat on each other, why would a girl not want to date me now, i need to move on??